14 GroundHog Day Facts And Why You Need to Celebrate This Underground Movement

See the Light

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Quoting an author I love, Paulo Coelho.

Those who know me, know my favorite day of the year is Ground Hog Day. Life is short so sometimes it’s a wonderful thing to be silly! For many years, I have advocated for this holiday which is severely underrated and under promoted. You might even say it’s an underground movement!

Ironically,  the days I am most interested in celebrating are sun related, kind of a strange one for the melanoma cancer patient, right? Winter solstice, Fourth of July, and yes, Ground Hog Day being tops on my list! So why do I love GH day? It’s a low maintenance holiday: no major gift giving, no seasonal decorations needed, and no pressure to get it all done! It’s our time to wish each other a Happy Ground Hog Day, to consider and talk about Spring (YAHOO, it is possibly happening again!!!!), and to see the light at the end of the proverbial tunnel (literally).

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I’ve taken to some subversive tactics over the years. My love of literacy has afforded me that annual opportunity to propagandize Ground Hog Day at my libraries, surely tainting those young minds and developing an unsuspecting following. Why, sometimes even elders understand this devotion; I  hear from a grandmother every year as we exchange Ground-Hoggedly Greetings!

Storytimes have included books such as Footprints and Shadows Shadow,   and  a reading of Stevenson’s poem My Shadow. One of my favorites is Moonbear’s Shadow and the list goes on and on. Take into consideration that the shadows we see are created by seeing the light! Projects might include: going out to measure your shadow and discussing the varying lengths at varying times, learning some basic shadow theater hand puppets, or weather activities such as painting the weather for that day or studies in black, gray, and white!

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In Fact

  1. Ground Hog Day is always celebrated on February 2nd
  2. It’s half way between the official start of Winter and the official start of Spring
  3. Groundhogs are also variously referred to as woodchucks, whistle-pigs, or land-beavers.
  4. The name whistle-pig comes from the fact that, when alarmed, a groundhog will emit a high-pitched whistle as a warning to the rest of his or her colony
  5. The name woodchuck has nothing to do with wood. Or chucking. It is derived from the Algonquian name for the critters, wuchak
  6. One of the largest rodents, part of the squirrel family
  7. Lives underground with pathways and burrows, having a separate winter den
  8. Hibernates generally from October to March, depending on location
  9. Hibernation can mean their body temperature drops to about 41 degrees (normal 98.6 degrees like us)
  10. Breeding season is March-May with a 30-32 day gestation period
  11. Litter of 2- 6 young (called pups or kits) though can have more
  12. Kits stay with their Mama about two to three months after being born in mid-April to May
  13. Youngsters disperse and leave mom’s burrow by Fall. However, about  thirty five percent of females stick around until after their first birthdays, right before mom’s new litter arrives
  14. Groundhogs are super for study of hepatitis B-induced liver cancer. In fact, if infected with Woodchuck Hepatitis B virus, the animal always goes on to develop liver cancer, making them useful for the study of liver cancer and of hepatitis B.

Punxsutawney Phil Lives

So here’s my truth, rodentially speaking, I really don’t like rodents at all. NOT AT ALL! And what’s more, whatever Phil proclaims weather-wise, it NEVER has relevance in the Northeast. We are shoveling winter off our doorstep or burrowing for the next 6 weeks and more guaranteed PERIOD! We will be demonstrating squirrelly behaviors and gnawing for warmer days!

Some think I’m absolutely foolish, others have embraced my desire for some mid-winter FUN! I’ve had staff make me ground hog shaped brownies, been given donuts with a ground hog poking out the hole, and a super-tacky Ground Hog necklace. I’ve gifted others “a just because” package to brighten their mid-winter blues (though Ground Hog Day is far more than “just because” in my mind!), and found awesome Valentine’s cards with those furry not-so-little rodents on them (multi-tasking the holidays of February!).

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Remember this is a no stress holiday! Wish those around you a Happy Ground Hog Day. Rejoice in the knowing that Spring will happen (it will, right?). Grab your seed catalogs or a good book, put on the tea water, and celebrate the day, celebrate you! Did you notice how late the sun set last night as the thermometer dipped to the negatives with hurricane force winds? It’s really very positive, this Ground Hog Day inspiration, the light I mean, not the shadow! #melanomatheskin  #GroundHogDay #FridayThoughts #WorldReadAloudDay #bookreview #melanoma #skincancer #followthelight #smile

Please sign up for my blog, let me know how you will celebrate in the comments,  and thanks for spreading the Good word! Happy Ground Hog Day to you and yours!

We can-cervive!

Janis

“Becoming”, by Michelle Obama…And Our Becoming

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Let It Be

Whoa! Amazing how time gets away from us. I’ve known I wanted to post in my blog, that I needed time to just let it be, and that other priorities had precedence. Not making excuses as it’s just the way it is! I find that I am always doing something so what the heck? Time can be such a game player!

Time seems to run from us, doesn’t it? And here I am, working on my melanoma and keeping stress to a minimum, part of a personal plan to keep life in balance while on a clinical trial drug called Yervoy. Creating space to improve my medical status has left me more challenged with time than when I raised my children, worked, and continued my education…all at the same time!

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Becoming

Becoming takes on different meanings for all of us but truly brings us all to a place for vision, action, reflection, and hopefully life growth through the process. It reminds me a bit of literacy grants and projects where ideas are born, nurtured and loved, to one day take flight while we evaluate the success (and failures) of such work. I’ve applied this a bit to life as it is now….becoming.

So, have you read Becoming by Michelle Obama? I am a stickler with reviews because, well, some books just don’t do it for me! However, Becoming is a book I love. In a time when life seems hard (not written to be a bummer at all, but really there are some awful things happening around the globe), this book gave me hope and was a very enjoyable read!

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Divided into three parts, the reader learns first about Michelle growing up, then as a forward thinking career woman who is a wife and mother, and lastly, as the First Lady who puts all she’s got into doing everything to the best of her ability.  She is so real and so honest in her depiction that at times I cringed to think about obstacles she had to overcome and the hard work she has put in to her life.

Neither stuck in the politics or the travesties in life, this book speaks about all of us, about our dreams, about our hard work. Hope does spring eternal and this is the perfect time to be reminded of this.

Love, education, and determination are three of the dominant themes that I found throughout Becoming. Fascination with this book really set in when I realized that these are the same things are central to my life, to most of our lives. I’ve read several books lately (when I should have been blogging!), but this book has stayed with me because of the hope that gets us through and beyond challenges of life.

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Cancer is there. Even if cured, we cancer patients will always wonder, ever so slightly about that one rogue cell. For many of us, we wonder if treatment is harder than the disease!  Reading positive books might just be another variation of meditation that leads to inspiration. What books have inspired you lately? Let me know in the comments! I’m always looking for more great reads!

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Life is about becoming, the process does not end. Above is a worn piece of paper, a quote that long ago helped me through a tough time. It’s place was on the fridge and ironically, I stumbled upon it the other day buried in a bureau drawer, a beautiful reminder of earlier lessons learned. I’m not religious but it never hurts to recognize how far we’ve come. Becoming: it’s for me, it’s for you, it’s for all of us. We’re doing just fine! #becoming #bookreview #melanomatheskin #cancer #melanoma #naturalskinrocks #skincancer #wecancervive

We can-cervive!

Janis

 

6 Suggestions for Giving Tuesday

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I know, I’ve been absent for a while…longer than I want to consider

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Melting down around 5 pm every day!

It’s been a tough run with Yervoy for the clinical trial I’m on. For whatever reason, my energy levels, which are not good, are less than non-existent. I’m putting up a great front though feel like the melting witch on the inside!

Immunotherapy would make me believe I have a super immune system, charging those T-cells to the infinite degree. I guess not because I’m coming down with a cold. Totally was hoping I was invincible, but hey, it’s good to know I’m still human even with all these chemicals racing to catch and kill cancer cells.

Upcycling Life

Enough of that. I’ve always been big on giving back, paying forward, or upcycling life. There, does that cover all the current lingo?!!!! Caring about others needs to be part of our lives every day. Kindness rules and with the crazy, scary world we live in, I truly believe that our goodness and love can win out. So do it every day, every way.

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Doing good for others brings joy to our lives.

Today is Giving Tuesday. Being the draggy person I am, I’m thinking about my donation giving for the holidays but might not get to it today. That’s okay. If you are able, do it! I actually give to two groups for our Moms; you see our Moms don’t need a lot and are incredibly hard to shop for anyway. THE Moms love donations that we make to either Camp Sunshine or the Children’s Literacy Foundation. Vicariously, they too, are paying it forward.

I’ve created a small list of organizations that are near and dear to me. I have connections with each of them so feel free to ask me about them if you want to hear from a person on what they do. I love your comments! I share this with you as I’m not working much these days and hope that you might just find one that works for you. My favs include:

  1. Camp Sunshine -an amazing retreat for families with terminally ill children offering smiles and love
  2. Children’s Literacy Foundation -an amazing literacy foundation that encourages the love of reading with children
  3. Dana Farber Cancer Institute -a world class medical facility that also cares for children with cancer
  4. Hope Lodge, Burlington, VT -one of many Hope Lodge housing options around the U.S. for cancer patients
  5. Hospitality Homes -a Boston-based program that offers housing to those requiring medical treatment
  6. Your local library -what a great way to keep on giving when you donate to your library and ask that it be used for books…it keeps on giving!

And please do ask about my connection with each of these worthy organizations!

Giving Life, An Attitude of Gratitude

If you are thinking about donating money or time somewhere, hooray to you! Money may seem a cold, callous gift but it’s not when you consider how costly medical situations can be. Cancer patients hold their heads high, but whoa, the financial strain is tough! Let me know of your favorite places to volunteer or donate money. Positive begets positive in this life! Inspiration comes in giving!

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We all do what we can. If your Giving Tuesday is as simple as opening a door, calling a friend, or smiling as you walk past a stranger, it’s all important to making this world a better place. And then make it a Giving Week which leads to a Giving Month which leads to a Giving Life. #melanoma #cancer #GivingTuesday #melanomatheskin #GivingLife #Wecancervive #volunteer #upcycling #LoveTrumpsHate

We can-cer vive!

Janis

Tolkinesque Cancer Trek within The Great American Read

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Passion Between the Pages

Are you loving the PBS Great American Read? I am. All right, so I forgot to watch last Tuesday at  8 pm but other than that I’m loving it! Gazillions of book talks, promotions, displays, and story times later in my professional life, this librarian is truly loving this event.

Why you ask? I mean, there’s not a lot of bling, blang, or blood, so what’s so enchanting? How often do we have people read us excerpts, promote the words and authors they love, and remind us to read those books on “the someday list”? Interviewees are enthralled with the books they’ve read or voted for on the PBS list of 100; in hearing their thoughts, I’m excited about what to read next.

Inspiration comes from that which we know soothes our soul, and in reading books, that inspiration also comes from a story unfolding, though we don’t know where the reading will lead us. It’s a gamble as to whether the story will take us places we want to go. I’d love to hear your favorite book of all time and where it takes you!

Really? Another Reading List?

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The first book on the PBS list that I’m reading is A Prayer for Owen Meany which I’ve picked up from the library. Author John Irving completely captivated me with Cider House Rules so this is the next of his I’ve wanted to read. It’s proving to be a challenge as the clinical trial I’m on for metastatic melanoma leaves me too tired to read! With over 500 pages, I am laughing at myself with the 5 pages or so I read a night!!!!

BUT (that’s a big but!), the writing is rich, the characters I am getting to know intimately, and I’m finding the writing takes me to another time, another place. What better way to escape the world of cancer treatment, than to let the words take me away. Besides,  little Owen Meany has captivated my heart and I am sorry to think of his battles ahead.

Journeys Versus Battles

The Lord of the Rings trilogy is on the PBS Great American Read list. I read the first, enough to recommend it to patrons, and with so many books out there, this is my standard philosophy on book series: read one and move on! I loved the journeys Tolkien took us on but found the battles to be arduous, violent, and senseless at times.

I recently had communication with an acquaintance who mentioned the idea of journeys versus battles as we discussed the challenges of cancer. He wrote “I remember being part of a group working on a program for people living with cancer and the doctor who led this said he preferred to refer to this as a ‘journey’ rather than a ‘fight.'” Thought provoking.

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This captured me; the concept almost alien but I wanted to love the idea of a cancer journey, or life as a journey with cancer being one of those bumps on the road. Somehow I was feeling Tolkienesque, maybe the accidental adventurer like Bilbo Baggins, on this cancer journey, working through incredible, mythical landscapes with help from some amazingly, magical medical staff. I love to travel so this sounded great!

Uphill Battles

 

BUT (this is a bigger but still!) I don’t agree! The idea of cancer as a journey is upbeat and positive; that works for me! The reality is we cancer patients do battle each and every day. We fight back the demons in our minds. We warriors do surgeries, radiation, clinical trials, and defeat the evil darklord, cancer. This is OUR fight against evil!

Like Tolkien’s epic series, we cancer patients are never sure what is around the next corner. We learn to enjoy the time between peril, we battle our Smaug dragons, and fight for our treasure (not a mere golden ring), but time. Some of us lose our battles to time, some of us continue the fight.

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Yes, the analogy of a journey is a reasonable one, just fraught with battles to be won! We do our best to not get stranded in the battles, and must prepare with courage for each assault. Our journey may be a bit more dangerous than some but we all have our demons to fight, dragons to slay. Working through this idea, I’m going with life is a journey, and cancer patients the warriors against disease!

Watch the amazing Great Amercian Read on PBS. MY very favorite book on the #GreatReadPBS list? It’s not the ones I’ve mentioned in this blog. Tell me yours in the comments and I’ll tell you mine!

#melanomatheskin #cancer #GreatReadPBS #melanoma #TuesdayThoughts #somanybookssolittletime

We can-cer vive!

Janis

Genre, Cancer, and Book Bullying

Building the reading list!

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What do you read? With company visiting, this is a common conversation in our home and one that always fascinates me. Titles, electronic or hard copy, are shared. Favorite library tales are discussed and everyone returns home with new lists, fodder in consideration of future reads, not all will be read but all will be considered.

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Hammock Reading

We are readers, my husband and I, with rare common ground. He sometimes enjoys light reading, and Robert Parker is his favorite mindless read when looking for something comfortable and non-strenuous. He tackles other things but loves a-re-read of Parker, The Ancient Child, All the President’s Men, and others. He is voracious, I dive deep into well worded writing. One we both enjoyed and have talked about at length is A Gentleman in Moscow.

As a librarian with a huge focus on family literacy, I am passionate about picture books and will always bring home a stack from my local library. I also love children’s chapter books that I can share with my grand-girl. I find this to be an enjoyable escape from the drama of being a cancer patient and the uncertainty that melanoma brings to the mind. This is my complete area of comfort, my hammock in the library world.

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In working with young adults, I learned to love certain authors; currently I am reading Tomi Adeyemi’s Children of Blood and Bone; this title has shown itself in multiple reviews and Jimmy Fallon’s Tonight Show chose it for a summer read. Well, technically, it is the finalist of a handful suggested. With his promotion of reading and libraries, I knew it was a book to read now!

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Reading In And Out Of The Zone

I’m out of my element with this book as I’m not a fantasy fan. It’s an allegory of the black experience, gods of color, and the belief of magic. I love it and highly recommend it! This is definitely a series in the making with movies to follow. Check out this interview with Tomi Adeyemi and I’m also loving that she encourages young writers. Thank you, Jimmy Fallon for this suggestion. Sometimes, it’s great to read out of our comfort zone.

So why blog about this and how does it relate to cancer? Reading takes on all forms; an engineer friend who reads technical matter, a non-fiction lover like me, or a light summer read that everyone loves. It’s all GOOD! Reading Matters! Recently, when getting scans at Dana Farber Cancer Institute, I asked a technician what she was reading. She joked and said she reads scans. We all have our focus and I’m grateful for that expertise. With an area in question on the CT this time, medical and professional reading is critical.

Awareness of discoveries, studies and clinical trials, and pertinent health information leads me to books and the latest in the field of cancer. AACR medical journal articles editor picks relating current cancer studies involving prostrate, breast, lymphoma, and other cancers are weighty reads, at best. For me, it’s an attempt to understand that which is not understood.

Beyond the Fantasy

But then, aren’t we all waiting for the cure; the magic beyond the fantasy, the scientific moment when healing takes place, when pain is replaced with hope, when that one child is given the reward of life for all his or her courage and efforts to be well. Cancer research is not a facile path, nor is the documentation. Reading snippets works for me; I leave the serious understanding to medical professionals!

Reading Matters!

Skip judgement and don’t be a book bully. People read for many different reasons. Escape/fantasy seems to bring more balance to me right now though next up is a non-fiction book I’ve been wanting to read by Tara Westover, Educated, another New York Times bestseller. So tell me, what are you reading and where do you find your inspiration? I’d love to add it to my list! #melanonatheskin #cancer #melanoma #bookreviews #readingmatters  #Tuesdaythoughts #whatareyoureading #librarylover #naturalskinrocks #wecan-cervive

We can-cer vive!

Janis

 

Fear and Reading-“The Emperor of All Maladies”

Warning: Dangerous Curve Ahead

Librarian and literacy advocate-gotta love a career like that. I find my melanoma takes away from what I want to do, how I thought my life played out. It’s changed my course in life and how dare those cancer cells take my greatest passions from me. Okay, I said it. Now, it’s time to get on with the life I never envisioned! Here’s one great book and one tiny, little reason not to read it, FEAR!

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Many of us get thrown curves in life and the big one for me right now happens to be cancer. I’ve always loved my profession and especially, the possibilities for connecting people with books, materials, resources, and education to empower them.  So it’s bound to overflow into my blog!

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My librarian/mentor and best bud long ago taught me that quite often the kids reading sports books are not the ones out playing sports…they just want to read about it.  The kids reading about abuse and tough family situations are quite often not living that at home, they just want to read about.  Often, our reading is about escape, about learning about what we don’t experience. We might just learn something!

I want to share a book about cancer. Now, why would we cancer patients want to read The Emperor of All Maladies by Siddhartha Mukherjee? Initially, I had no idea it was about cancer and as a lover of non-fiction (okay, I confess…I am a multi-genre lover who keeps multiple titles on the nightstand!), I made a mental note years ago that I wanted to check out that book some day.

In 2011, it won the Pulitzer Prize which reminded me again that someday I would read it. Then a few years later, I learned the subtitle :A Biography of Cancer. Shit! How does one read this book when already drowning in words like biopsy, cancer diagnosis, treatment, stress..that list is long so just suffice to say c-word stuff?

Mukherjee’s book was first published in 2010, so by 2017 with another melanoma diagnosis, it was time. I mean, the book’s information was no longer hot off the press and I knew I wanted to read it. Fear, fear, fear that it would bring me to places I didn’t want to go had held me back.

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The Road is Long

Goodreads.com offers relevant reviews and varied thoughts on this book, but I’d like to share a few thoughts as well. Non-fiction, in the contemporary publishing market, tends to weave facts with interesting story lines. The Emperor of All Maladies:A Biography of Cancer traces cancer from thousands of years ago to the 21st century, interweaving science, history, and human experience. Cancer has not taken the express lane!

Rather than feeling chaffed reading this title, I felt soothed. The Dana Farber Cancer Institute connection added another layer of confidence with my already swelling assurance of my skin cancer team. Secondly, I gained tremendous respect for the scientists, oncologists, and other professionals who have led and continue to advance toward cures; this journey has been far longer than I realized.

 

Lastly (though I could go on and on about this book!), it humbled me. People talk of the cancer club, yet this title manifests how each cancer patient has their own brave battle, and that together each of our unique roads leads forward together, be it caregiver,  healthcare staff, or patients. Thank you to ALL of those who came before us on this journey.

Fellow blogger and cancer patient, Melanoma in Me, writes about this amazing book and an opportunity to meet the author. I’ve met many authors in my life and hearing Mukherjee discuss cancer and what’s next would be even more inspirational. I hope to have that opportunity knowing how quickly the knowledge-base about cancer has expanded in the last decade.

In reading The Emperor of All Maladies, I am reminded that knowledge breaks down fear. Fear is a detour, a roadblock, and this post, a small example of how to leave it behind before it leaves you behind. Try this book, and let me know what you think! Thanks for signing up for my blog, too! #nofear #readingrisk #cancer #mindfulness #melanomatheskin #melanoma

We Can-cer vive!

Janis

PS I just realized PBS made a documentary (Ken Burns) about this in 2015 so I will watch it perhaps someday!

Matters of Life and Death…and Books, Of Course!

Immortality is not something I seek. How about you? Life is so amazing, and so challenging, too. It’s that balance thing which we live with every day. Live beyond fear and just live!

Sudden Death

My grandfather was run over and died, a best friend died far too young and wrongfully, a child died in a terrible accident. Unexpected death is tragic, shocking, and contorts the mind to make sense of it. Emotions are exposed, raw and beyond painful. Pieces never quite fit together again. Trauma and tragedy envelope the unexpected loss.

The one thing we know is that there is only one way out of this life. Is death more palatable for those who know they have only so much time? Would my grandfather have played his hand differently if he knew when his last day was? Would you?

A Fate Worse Than Death

Cancer patients live with the fragility of it all; diagnosis, stages, treatments, and even, survival rates. With my melanoma biopsies, options in life changed: is this deadly?, what is the prognosis?, and projects like getting my “things in order” floated through my mind. Some days, meeting an untimely death might sound easier, but then, you still have today!

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I recently read The Time Traveler’s Wife by Audrey Niffenegger. My husband has loved this book for some time; I have at last read it. The beginning was a bit slow and confusing, but I always like to give a book 50-100 pages to develop. And develop it does as Niffenegger creates a story, both intricate and believable. This title offers deep possibilities for discussion.Would I want to know what is ahead?  Would you? Is it better that we don’t know?

In reading this book, it reminded me of Natalie Babbit’s  Tuck Everlasting, a riveting children’s book that explores the idea of living forever. A town wide read for our small Vermont community many years ago, concepts of eternal life, the benefits of NOT living forever, and avoiding the process of aging were exposed with prolific conversation for all ages.  Read it with your child or on your own; maybe it is okay that we have an end to this journey we call life!

“Now Is Eternity;

Now is The Immortal Life” (Richard Jefferies). Find courage in the day that you have; be present now!  Human nature seeks hope:  in life and in living, in treatments and cures, in one day or one year. Courage lies in the belief of a tomorrow. Find your inspiration to keep moving forward and balance that with what you have right now.  Cancer steals time-give yourself what quality you can through meditation, creating positive moments, and making the best of this day. Easier said than done, but make the most of this instant.

On  my reading list- The Immortalists by Chloe Benjamin. Yikes! Another book about living and dying. What if we did know what day we would die? Fascinating to consider, how would you live knowing your exact moment of passing?  This is one of the titles that made Jimmy Fallon’s summer reading list suggestions and subsequent vote. It’s had rave reviews and will offer another window on life/death debates.

Windows into our future may not be the best idea.  These 3 titles glimpse into what “might” be, given that crystal ball. For me, it’s intriguing to play with the possibilities, but I’m a realist. I’m definitely going to read The Immortalists but for now, I intend to pause from ideas of time travel, death, and immortality. It’s not about fear today, it’s just about today, this moment, and about what is. #whatareyoureading #melanomatheskin #melanoma #Tuesdaythoughts #cancer #reading

We can-cer vive!

Janis