Daylight Savings Ends Sunday; 23 Free Things To Do After Dark

Melanoma patients have to be sun shy. Does it mean I stay inside and watch the world go by? Hell, no! Modification is key to living the best life you can. Sun-safe habits are important and now integrated into my day. But have you considered night time in your plan? In the summer, that may be crucial to avoiding high noon sun time; as we fall back to end daylight savings for this year, we have a lot of darkness to consider!

Things That Go Bump In The Night

Okay so evening is not my strong suit. Immunotherapy drags me through my days and by the evening, I am weary from this new lifestyle. That being said, consider taking a rest during the day so you might be able to do a few of these things at night:

  1. Walking is great and going for an evening stroll means you don’t have to worry about UV ratings. Wear what works depending on the season.
  2. Nighttime gives us a completely different perspective. Enhance your other senses by using them! Allow your visual overload to relax, let the sounds of the night be your focus. Or your sense of smell, touch, or taste…have your bedtime snack outside by the fire!
  3. Dress for the weather, bugs, snow, or whatever!

The Skies Have It

Consider your season and what you can do to get out after dark. Weather needs to be considered.

Spring might mean:

4.  Walking in the rain.

5.  Night crawler-ing!

6. Considering the changes that come with this season but from the darkness.

7. Meditating outside.

8. Trying some yoga poses.

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 Summer has great potential with:

9. Observing the end of day flights and songs of birds.

10. Watching lightning bugs (early July here in the Northeast).

11. Moonlight bike rides or canoe paddling, often offered via community calendars.

12. Slip, slop, slap and wrap as needed and go on that sunset cruise.

13. Step out for an ice cream, theater, or movie.

14. This meteor show, the Perseid Shower is a spectacular summer show. Seeing 5 meteors before 9:30 pm reminded me what a sight this is to enjoy.

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Fall Brings Options Including:

15. Tell stories and have a bonfire. Read a passage from a favorite book.

16. Avoid light pollution when possible and actively observe the constellations changing as some such as Orion come marching back for winter viewing.

17. Space. com is a great resource for sky information and be sure to read the dates for the Geminid Meteor Shower, the brightest of the year in mid December.

18. When the moon is close to full or full, it creates a lot of light, so star viewing is not as crisp. Those naturally bright nights are a great time to find your way around outside and get adventuring.

19. Got leaves?! Make a pile away from tree, plop into your pile, and just look up. On a clear, chilly night the smells of Autumn along with night sky clarity will have you awestruck with the magnitude of beauty.

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And Then, There’s Winter:

Isn’t it easy to hunker down and avoid the brrrrrr of it all? Push yourself each day to find pleasure in the night. Winter may be the most challenging; I know it is for me. The lack of light with daylight savings is abysmal. My best remedy is to get out, so gear up and do it. The winter nights are long and breaking up the doldrums might include:

20. Shoveling-Ha, you laugh. It’s a never ending project in the winter and why not chip away at it for a bit? Aches and pains are a reality with my clinical trial but I figure moving beats the alternative.

21. Reflection from the moon is intense during the coldest months. Dress for the weather, let the cold steal your breath away, and go for a walk, snowshoe, or cross country ski. It needn’t be long but that fresh air will give you inspiration!

22. Clear nights are perfect for stargazing. It’s cold out there so bundle up, grab your lounger lawn chair (it saves on neck discomfort), or lay down in a snowbank. Look up, look up!

22. Bright nights might mean building a snowman or decorating snowbanks with food coloring and water in a squirt bottle. Silly is okay because laughing is good for the soul and healing.

23. On a snowy night, step out and listen to the snow on your jacket, feel the wind, and stick your tongue out. Sometimes, it’s good to just know you are alive!

Finding Light In The Darkness

Modification is key to enjoying life when dealing with melanoma and other cancers. There are good days and bad days. There is pain, sadness, and loss. What do you do to find pleasure, even if you can’t be in the sun? What would you do if you could play after dark? Please do comment and add your suggestions!

Gift yourself moments like these; hope is found here. Build your new life knowing you have disease and create balance with the best moments. Cancer patients have challenges and those with melanoma have sun safety concerns.

After-dark adventures needn’t be long or complicated. Plan ahead, know the weather, and smile. Learn when the crickets chirp, when the moon phases are this month, and when that outdoor concert will be held.  Courage comes in small doses and moonshine provides inspiration!

We can-cer vive!

Janis

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What’s In Your…Backpack?

Just a quick note as I prepare for my next infusion…that alone is an assumption! There will be blood tests, spot checking, scans, and evaluations. It’s a time of mixed emotions; I always hope that I pass with flying colors and get the immunotherapy that may be saving my life, I also feel the anxiety of what might not be okay.

I’d really love comments from others on what you do when faced with challenges ahead. Do you take that nervous energy and just go out and have fun? Or do you take on a project to keep your mind and body busy, expending dark energy? Do you get lost in your worry?

And That’s Why It’s Called a Nervous “WRECK”!

A few days out from the process and it’s a rainy day. The beach walk I thought I’d squish in this morning was given a literal “rain check”. Travel bags are now packed, some small projects completed, and next up will be the cats! Wow, to the World Series but it also means no more Red Sox to keep me inspired. I prefer to have bills paid and administrative duties completed. Clean sheets are always a good thing. Diversion, good! Nervous? Hell, yes!DSC01632

All of this seems silly but in having things in order for now, I expend some tension. Doing that leaves more room for things I will need while at Dana Farber Cancer Institute; it’s my emotional backpack. We all have them and when cancer treatment is imminent,  it’s important to NOT fill my emotional backpack with negativity, nervousness, and worry.

Get Ready (by The Temptations)

Here’s a brief list of what I will put in my emotional backpack:

  • belief in a tomorrow
  • courage
  • hope
  • inspiration
  • integrity
  • love

Hokey as hell but in putting in positive feelings, there is less room for the emotions that drag one down. Sure, they are there (those scary thoughts), and yes, when I walk into the medical facility there is a pit in my stomach. Metastatic melanoma, stage III, is one deadly disease. I’m well versed in what I’m up against.

Choosing to bring all those positive emotions and desires with me gives me strength, strength to get through a long day.  I put a positive spin on something I never thought would be a part of my life; I believe that I’m part of something bigger and that satisfies my soul. Cancer research is imperative and clinical trials matter.

Balancing Act

Balance will be skewed on my medical day, no doubt. There is no way to discount the possibility of a questionable scan, bloodwork values, or other concerns. This is how those cancer cells are found, this is the chance we cancer patients have. Packing the positives in my emotional bag become the bulwark for whatever this trip brings.

Exhausting, the Yervoy infusion is only one part of the depleting feeling of cancer treatment. Finding your emotional infusion may take time, but look high and low; positive emotion may just be the reserve you need to pack. Take the time to discover what it is for you and how to pack it up for when you need it!

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Balance is a building process!

We all need to have emotional reserves for challenges in life. I’d love to hear what works for you. Please share in the comments as we all will benefit from learning what to pack in life’s emotional bag! What works for you?

We can-cervive!

Janis

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Nobel Prize for Immunotherapy Pioneers; The Long and Winding Road

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The Road to a Cure

This past Monday, James P. Allison, PhD and Tasuku Honjo won the 2018 Nobel Prize in Physiology or Medicine for their work in cancer immunotherapy. For those of us cancer patients who live because of immunotherapy, this cancer research is critical and the award brings some sort of personal satisfaction.

By stimulating the inherent ability of our immune system to attack tumor cells this year’s Nobel Laureates have established an entirely new principle for cancer treatment.  Metastatic melanoma is the skin cancer that I have. I participate in a clinical trial and was randomized to receive Yervoy (ipilimumab) which works with T-cells to improve the body’s ability to fight cancers such as melanoma.

Accelerators and Brakes

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James P. Allison studied a known protein that functions as a brake on the immune system. He realized the potential of releasing the brake and thereby unleashing our immune cells to attack tumors. He then developed this concept into a brand new approach for treating patients.

In parallel, Tasuku Honjo discovered a protein on immune cells and, after careful exploration of its function, eventually revealed that it also operates as a brake, but with a different mechanism of action. Therapies based on his discovery proved to be strikingly effective in the fight against cancer.

Allison and Honjo showed how different strategies for inhibiting the brakes on the immune system can be used in the treatment of cancer. Different strategies, but both accelerating toward a healthy future for cancer healing. I may be just a small mile marker with immunotherapy, but I offer GINORMOUS thanks to Allison, Honjo, and others who have advanced the cause, set us on a path. Here is the scientific background of their work.

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So how does any of this relate to me? Us? I’m thrilled because in doing my clinical trial, my primary goal has been to improve the study of cancer. I’m not sure how it works or not for me, but perhaps in working with the staff at Dana Farber Cancer Institute I’m helping someone else down the road as the cancer research continues to move forward.

 

Yeah, I want to rid myself of cancer but I passionately want to participate in scientific research. Medical “stuff” is not my thing but through this trial, my T-cells are being driven, hitchin’ a ride toward a cure. Maybe not my cure, maybe not yours, but somehow I feel a bit “noble” for being on the right road toward a cure!

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We can-cervive!

Janis

 

Immunotherapy and Playing For The Win

Deal Me In

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Some days we feel lost in the shuffle.

Wondering about immunotherapy? Some days, I wonder myself and I am participating! Dana Farber Cancer Institute is where I go for treatment of melanoma and the online library gives a good overview of immunotherapy.  Whether a cancer patient or caregiver, the amount of  health information out there is overwhelming. Take a good look at your hand, figure out a strategy, and play to win!

When first learning of the suggested path for my recurrent metastatic melanoma, I cringed. Never having interest in medical science, it all felt like one grand experiment. And now, one year in to the clinical trial, I would say “yes, yes it is one grand experiment”, and how lucky I am to be here to say that! It’s not luck really as there is a tremendous amount of scientific data and staff backing our choices.

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Chances

Knowing nothing about clinical trials (and why would I?), I did some research and felt that I “would like” to be on pembrolizumab (Keytruda) though there were three drug options in this study.  It seemed that there were some successes with this immunotherapy and the treatment period was shorter and more do-able as we traveled to Boston. Wow, was I surprised to realize I had not even paid attention to the fact that the study randomizes. In other words, I would get whatever drug the computer randomly chose.

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Taking a chance in the game of life!

And The Winner Is…

Ipilimumab (Yervoy) which I will take for 3 years if all goes well.  Initially, there is an induction phase. Basically, for me, this meant going to Dana Farber every 3 weeks for a few months last Fall. At that time, blood work, scans, appointments, all lead the way to getting an infusion. Some times I was refused due to poor lab results or questionable health. Heading back north without the treatment was tough, a quiet ride with uncertainty about our game plan, wondering how to play this hand, and knowing there is no clear win.

Let’s ace this!

And then, to turn around and say, yes! Yes to trying another trip soon after because of the time constraints of the clinical trial. After the induction phase, visits are now every 3 months, a holiday in retrospect to the intensity of the earlier months. Basically, the same drill: blood tests, scans, appointments, which all lead to the last part of the arduous day, the infusion.

Infusion time varies. Mine is 1.5 hours and I am always relieved to start the infusion, knowing I have passed the tests for this time, anted up with hope. It all starts with an IV port for various tests and at the end of the day amazing infusion nurses check and re-check everything, hook me up, and I take it all in, every drop of hope. By the way, this immunotherapy is not a personal cocktail but is prepared based on my weight for that day.

Parameters of this drug research frequently remind me that this is about finding answers, about learning from the 1,300+ candidates and there will be winners and losers. This clinical trial is for 3 years though I can drop out at any time. The medical team will continue to evaluate me based on the length of time I did the infusions. So far, I march forward or should I say drag forward celebrating one year of immunotherapy next month! The side effects are tough for me and feel heavier this time. How are you doing with your treatment? Please comment on your challenges!

As I mentioned in an earlier blog, immunotherapy is not chemotherapy.  A Cancer Today blogpost writes that immunotherapy is progressive treatment though the side effects are relevant and more tangible than previously known. There are many options depending on the type of cancer and the study.

Yippi for Ipi, Playing the Hand You’re Dealt

Research shows that Ipilimumab has success with melanoma. The website also states “YERVOY will not work for every patient. Individual results may vary.”-I get it, the disclaimer, and I choose this clinical trial for a couple of reasons:

  • I’ve got things I want to do
  • I hope this research will help another melanoma patient
  • I’ve always believed in paying it forward
  • I think I may be more able than others to tolerate the side effects
  • I will be followed and watched for several years

I could just skip the trial at Dana Farber because Ipi is approved for some stages of melanoma (meaning I could receive treatment closer to home). When randomized I chose to continue because yes, selfishly I want to live and think I have the best team in the world, but also because I want to participate in the study. There’s nothing pretty or glorious about this and some days the deck feels stacked. Bottom line is I want to keep playing. While some see this as a gamble, I know it’s a chance to win!

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Play for the Win!

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We can-cer vive!

Janis

 

 

6 Things You May Not Know About Melanoma

Breaking News

Some of you may remember a time when breaking news meant something intensely serious was happening. When J.F.K. died I was watching some morning show while my Mother ironed (another concept that dates many of us!). I remember it vaguely as I was young; my mother was crying and that felt like breaking news, like something had broken because it had.

Breaking news today, well that’s an occurrence that we no longer pay attention to as it has lost it’s earnestness. Breaking news is everywhere, everyday and no longer has any significant value. That leaves each of us to determine what to watch, what not. Like the friend who is never quite honest, I’ve tired with the uncertainty of the news and the shortage of information, and the lunacy is abundant.

BUT…

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Watch for spots

There are things you may not know about metastatic melanoma, a type of skin cancer, and I feel it is breaking news to inform you with a few short hits on what we know at this point. I save the most interesting for last so keep reading! There are many misconceptions about melanoma, so here’s a basic list of health information:

  1. Melanoma is deadly so be sure to be aware of the abcde’s of melanoma. Do skin checks and be #sunsmart.
  2.  Basal cell and squamous cell carcinoma are considered non-melanoma skin cancers. Read about them here at Web MD. While they are skin cancers, they do not turn into melanoma.
  3. Cancer resources for skin related disease can be found in online resources such as the American Academy of Dermatology Association. The photos may help but don’t let that be your guide. Like the shirt that you bought online that turned out to be a completely different color, your skin cancer may not look like digital photos.Be wise and see a dermatologist in person.
  4.  Depending on the staging, melanoma is not a quick surgical removal. Possibilities include excision, plastic surgery, nuclear dyes (the most painful thing ever) to find lymph node drainage, radiation, and a plethora of scans and tests.
  5. Pay attention to the UV Index – the sun is powerful!

And Here It Is…The REAL Breaking News!

   6. Melanoma does NOT react positively in chemo treatment.

Yeah, that’s the big news. it may be used to relieve symptoms of this aggressive disease, most commonly for Stage IV patients. Cancer treatment is equated to chemotherapy and guess what? That’s not always true! I’ve had people say things like:

  • “Wow! You must be getting a light dose. You haven’t lost your hair”
  • “You look really healthy compared to other people I know who’ve been on chemo”
  • “Why are you fatigued if you’re not receiving chemotherapy?”

My cancer-related fatigue is from a clinical trial that I participate in and I receive the drug Yervoy. The study compares Yervoy to other drugs such as Keytruda used for metastatic melanoma. At this time, there is no cure for melanoma and I hope that in participating in this immunotherapy research, that someday there will be a drug or series of drugs that can reduce the death rate for others, and not be filled with risks and side effects.

Visually, I do look like myself and I believe I will heal. Fatigue is intense at times; not that I need to nap but I feel like the a horse pulling thousand pound weights most days. Aches are challenging me more over time, and I’ve been offered steroids to alleviate the pain. I’m not ready to put more drugs into this soupy/saucy mix but I’m close.

Every day is a great day. I only mention some of the melanoma cancer tips because there are many misconceptions. There’s a lot going on inside some of us though it may not show! I’ve learned to not judge a book by it’s cover in a medical sense now that I have medical turmoil within. Inspiration also comes from within, so look beyond all the cancer craziness, find your courage, and bring that to the surface and let it shine! #melanomatheskin #getnaked #melanoma #cancer #yervoy

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We can-cer vive!

Janis

 

 

Melanoma Marathon

Now Racing Through My Mind…

is the appointments, no longer in the distance but hurdles to be jumped in the next few days. I honestly, don’t see a finish line in my melanoma path, primarily because beating cancer is now a way of life. This isn’t a knee scrape that we put a band aid on and all is good.

Bottom line, I’m alive and I’m in the care of world class doctors at Dana Farber, and I’m monitored on a regular basis.  Do I want to be under such scrutiny? Hell, yes! While I’d love to have no medical anything in life, I have a ginormous medical life. This is what is keeping me alive and that is how I look at it. This IS life now.

Not The Fast Track

My journey involves traveling. Weighing whether my Stage III metastatic melanoma was worthy of out-of-state cancer treatment with the recurrence, it was obvious that was the track we were on. Road trips add another layer of angst but once you get the routine down its okay.

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A folder includes changes in medicines, printed schedules, and other loose paperwork. The notebook of questions, previous notes, and dates, etc. is essential. Identification and the dreaded health insurance cards are put in my “Maggie Bag”… a gift from a friend that keeps the small essentials together. There’s also a cribbage board in there, pens, chapstick, pain relievers, and special beads from the grandkids.

DSC01632All of this goes in the backpack, along with water bottles, snacks, and perhaps some knitting or reading.  I can’t do books on Dana Farber days as my mind wanders but a good magazine is easier on the brain.  Why the backpack? These days are beyond full so we bring what we need and usually don’t have to return to the parking garage until day’s end.  Wear comfortable walking shoes as procedures are not next door! What works for you on big medical days? I’d love to hear your tips! Please comment.

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Having a caregiver, if possible, is very important. Driving, listening to medical professionals, helping to navigate floors, offices, and labs, taking notes, asking questions, and just offering support in a very anxious situation is incredibly helpful.

Start Up: A Marathon with Hurdles

Dermatologists will examine every dot and spot. Included in the day is: blood work, MRI and CT scans, skin cancer oncologists, and the infusion team if all goes well. Beyond grueling as woven in to this time of poking and prodding, is the nugget all cancer patients keep buried in the back of their thoughts…”will the tests come back clean?”.

Health information is exchanged. I let my medical team know of my fatigue challenges, what aches, any new areas in question. In return, I will get preliminary results from all the testing, and perhaps a green light for infusion of Yervoy (imilimumab), one of the drugs in the clinical trial that I started last Fall.

Train For The Hurdles

Like each day, I take the medical days moment by moment. Each appointment is important, and brings me one step closer to the end-of-the-day infusion that may be enhancing my immune system. Train your brain to seek the positive when possible. How you prepare for the next appointment matters.

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Lead into your hurdles with hope and courage; it makes for a strong landing. Life is different for each of us, and we all have our challenges, our hurdles. Take each one as they come, and work toward a solid landing. Like the track and field runner, practice finding balance and positive head space. Where does your inspiration come from? #rootingforyou #cancer #melanomatheskin #melanoma #yippyforipi #inforthewin #Tuesdaythoughts

We can-cer vive!

Janis

 

Birds of a Feather

Cancer patients or is that cancer patience? Ah, I’ve learned a lot about patience as I plod along hoping that each day on this clinical trial brings me closer to healing. Rather than live in fear, I have the belief that in being patient with the immunotherapy drug that potentially treats melanoma and kicks my butt, that I have a chance.

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Hope and inspiration might just come from odd places as we fight cancer and look for balance in our lives. I find that living in the moment is a good place for me to reside! Simple pleasures come and go, as do the trickier moments of scans, tests, and infusions. The natural world bestows the greatest moments of a-ha and reminds me of what really matters.

Life on the Wing

And so it is with the birds. Living where nature abounds, panoramic views gives ample opportunity for viewing. A plethora of shore birds arrive seasonally, while the hardier sparrows, blue jays, and gulls will tough it out with the rest of us year rounders.

Reading Round Robin by Jack Kent is a fun picture book and always a reading rite of Spring  bringing lots of laughs! Three robins nests in the rafters at our house this year and I’ve learned a lot from the National Audubon about the American Robin! What better way to be reminded of the hope of tomorrow than with watching life unfold.

Rule the Roost

Nest #1 appeared in May, and we barely noticed it nicely tucked in to the far end of the deck…not sure how many eggs there were, but if you look closely at the pictures above you will see two young birds. Flights ensued the day after this picture and they were on their own shortly thereafter.

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Nest #2

Nest #2 came immediately after #1 on the busy, walkway under our deck. Long strands of grass and nest making material had me keen to this busy pair of robins. Four blue eggs later, we waited. With a 12-14 day incubation that felt far longer, we finally had one robin. I’ve been told that 50% hatch is normal. My grand-girl caught this baby bird on video early on, and I’ve watched this video several times. Life is amazing, right?

To Every Season

Nest #3 is in the middle rafters and contains 3 eggs. It’s another high traffic area so we put a flower planter over it to provide a privacy screen. One robin hatched the other day, one egg is cracked, and one looks to be losing its robin’s egg blue.

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This will be the last of the robins for this year. The weather will cool, the birds will leave, the landscape will change. I’ve taken the time to watch life, to have the patience to let it unfold. Meditation comes in many forms and be sure to take a moment to pause, find courage in your good moments, and let those positive thoughts take flight.

Thank you for signing up for my blog and let me know what you do to find those cancer-free moments. Stay tuned to learn about the empty nests!

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We can-cer vive!

Janis