Happy Happy Day

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Yes, it’s been forever and no, you don’t need to worry. My focus continues to be on being healthy and finding balance as a cancer patient. Metastatic melanoma is just one of my many interests in life. If you feel a lag, know that I am just not writing, nothing less, nothing more! Or be in touch!

Spring is Here!

The first day of Spring! Hooray and the sun speaks of things to come; it may only be a whisper but those of us who disparage winter’s worth can feel the change-a comin’. Subtle and yet, as bold and brash as a billboard, Spring shows itself. I’ve noticed a few green shoots popping through, daffodils undoubtedly. I’ve scoured the scrub brush out back for the snowdrops, but think I’m over zealous. Not everyone jumps for the joy of a plant you forgot about or that you thought you lost!!!

Seeds are here, too! I planted a few things and look forward to doing more. Dahlia seeds are already popping up…of course, this is all indoor adventure to keep me smiling through the rain and snow that inevitably comes this time of year!

Happy Days

Today is also International Day of Happiness according to the United Nations. Nothing better than a day to declare happiness. Well, yeah, except why not try our best every day? Great to recognize that feeling of happiness with a special day; after all you and I have our own special day each year. How about making the effort to make every day one of happiness?

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If you are challenged by disease, relationship, finance..whatever it may be, do you feel better for all your sadness, self pity, and sorrow? The best serum is courage; courage to drop your sorrows and make room for love and hope. Easier said than done when you are wallowing in your misery, but happiness is really not hard to come by.

Open up to let it in, grab for the positive, and see how happiness curls into every corner of your life. I firmly believe that each of us has only so much room for sorrow and pain before it takes us down and conversely, I believe that positive feelings of love, doing for others, and having fun can grow and multiply infinitely. And is contagious…catch some!

Misery Loves Company

Of course, I want to bring reading in to this post. As a librarian, I’ve always loved children’s books. I read everything but with all the amazing children’s authors out there, I return to what is dearest to my heart. Happiness is around every corner, every page if you choose to find it.

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The 2017 Newbery winner was The Girl Who Drank the Moon by Kelly Barnhill. What an amazing novel with many accolades, and add my thoughts to the collection of positive reviews.  Recommended for children in grades 4-6, I would expand that target to any reader in 4th grade or older. This could be a particularly pertinent read for a 13th birthday or a coming of age event. Adults, read it!

Not a big fantasy reader, I couldn’t wait to pore over each chapter, most of which are reasonably short in length. With magic, a tiny dragon, missing babies, and a town drowning in sorrow, who wouldn’t want to keep reading to see which witch is witch? The real magic comes in Barnhill’s words; she will have your children clamoring for more with the richness of plot, descriptiveness of place, and the authenticity of characters.

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And no, I don’t want to give a spoiler but the sorrow that consumes the community in this book…well let’s just say some thrive on  that sorrow and self-pity, while others work hard to bring happiness in to their lives. Oh yes, this is a children’s book but if you read deeper, I know Barnhill shares a message we all can find if we so choose. #melanomatheskin #cancer #happyday #happyspring #wecancervive #melanoma #Wednesdaythoughts #review #choosehappiness

Happy Day! Happy Life!

We can-cer vive!

Janis

 

 

 

 

Vote Early, Vote Often

***I’ve decided to post this again. Infusion last week, fatigue this week. Please vote, whatever you believe in! It’s how democracy works! Elections matter!

Feeling the Blow

I’m already breaking a political promise; I vowed this blog wouldn’t get into my political beliefs. So like all those running for office, not all promises are kept! You see sometimes life changes our platforms, whether we approve or not! I’ve voted and hope you participate on November 6th if not before. I’d love to hear your thoughts on politics, voting, or cancer. Comments are encouraged and discussion most welcome!

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After years of great health, I was dealt the first melanoma blow in 2015.  Determined not to have it be a knock out, I came back fighting. Until things didn’t feel right to me again, a facial excision left an area tender; my old boxing injury I joked. Except  something wasn’t right and I needed to believe in myself, to fight.

The Main Event (Round Two)

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Doctors didn’t believe me and so time went by; we cancer patients have a love-hate relationship with time. (We want more of it, though hate it when it means waiting on test results). Finally, I requested a biopsy; metastatic melanoma again and recommendations that we now go to the medical epi-center of Boston, Dana Farber Cancer Institute being our choice. I was in the big ring now.

I’ve mentioned my cancer before and will again, but not in the context of politics. I could be the poster child for pre-existing conditions. My skin, like yours, holds onto its history; its damage, whether it be sun or other sources is pre-existing. My metastatic melanoma could have happened as a child, or just a few years ago. It’s been two hard punches to the left side of my face.

So, my pre-existing condition just may have been lurking for years, waiting for the optimum conditions to let cancer, medical diagnosis, doctors and dermatologists, become the new normal in my life. I’ve always listened to my physical being, but we cancer patients feel we’re caught cold when going another round. Pre-existing, why yes I am!

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Saved By The Bell

Think pre-existing conditions aren’t relevant to you? Yes, I gratefully thought that previous to 2015. I agree that we want to cultivate hope and inspiration, not worry about the what-ifs that can drag us down with a one-two punch.  And any given day, you may be in a bout for your life, for your medical treatment.

Insurance discussion is a constant in our home, at our table now. I’m the lucky one because we have insurance to cover my clinical trial drug for now. At some point, we are going to make a decision on insurance expenses and/or treatment. Decisions are regularly made by people who can’t afford insurance premiums. Long before my health issues, I was deeply affected by those I love making tough life choices based on medical expense.

We Are The Champions

So, yeah! Vote early, vote often, but whatever you do vote! We’ve all fallen to the canvas a few times, all taken a few sucker punches. Life is like that. However you vote, at least you’re making a decision to participate, to get up and fight for what you believe in. An outcome, the decision, will be heard; if you vote, you’ve put it out there, given it your best shot!

Contenders, all of us, with our concerns and passions. Believe in yourself, have courage, and stay in the ring. There has never been a more important time to fill out a ballot. Voting is super easy and vitally important. I’ve taken to voting absentee; bringing the ballot home to research the questions and candidates more closely. Vote, vote, vote for what matters to you on November 6th (and wear your sunscreen;).

Next time, I promise not to talk politics. “And if you believe that, I’ve got a bridge…”!

#melanomatheskin #vote #melanoma #cancer #sunsavvy365 #Tuesdaythoughts #election

We can-cer vive!

Janis