Knee High by the Fourth of July

So whose knee are we talking here, anyway? I mean, if it’s mine the corn’s not meeting the standard. If it’s my “almost five” grandson, things are ahead of schedule! This year, gardening keeps me focused on life, on what might be if you believe.

Mary, Mary Quite Contrary

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Three Sisters Garden Early June 2018

Back in March, I was planning and planting my gardens, something I never had time for when reaching out and outreaching with literacy initiatives.  Originally, I envisioned seedlings in the cellar as the good light and extra space seemed best.  However, I learned I needed great light so plywood splayed around the living room and seeds germinated!

 

Working with all my seedlings this Spring kept me busy enough (in and around dragging through the day!), and also got me to thinking, thinking about things other than cancer.  Sunshine is for growing food, flowers, trees, and life. Flora, the goddess of flowers and nurturer of botany, needs light. Light is life.

Ironically, here I find myself dealing with metastatic melanoma and learning how to live with the sun and not directly in it. That same invaluable sunshine that gives life to us can also take it away. Each day I choose to find inspiration in the light, the power it brings to Mother Earth. Find your passion to see you through and the courage to stay out of the darkness!

Three Sisters Garden

One of four siblings, and with 3 of us females, I decided to try a Three Sisters Garden this year. Some of my seedlings included corn and winter squash.  These are two of the Three Sisters vegetables, and I later planted bean seeds directly into the garden, representing the Three Sisters. The day I planted the seedlings of corn and squash, the clouds melted into rain. At first I thought it could be sister tears though quickly realized this gentle, unexpected rain was to settle the plants, to nurture, just as my sisters always had with me.

 

Remember the book Carrots Love Tomatoes?  The Three Sisters Garden is of Native American origin and is a variation on companion planting.  Each of these 3 plants, winter squash, beans and corn, provides nutrients and growing space for the others.  I was reminded of this method last Fall when I read Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall Kimmerer.  After borrowing this book from my library, I purchased a copy because it resonates with me deeply.

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Three Sisters Garden Early July 2018

My two sisters have passed, each of a different cancer, and this is my way of recognizing the hole that lost love leaves and that we all incorporate loss into life.  Nurturing ourselves, remembering others, and living the best damn life we’ve got today. My garden is definitely an experiment…in patience, in growth, and in the hope of tomorrow. But then, isn’t life an experiment as well?

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Three Sisters Garden July 2, 2018

Knee high by the Fourth of July? Hell, yeah! What are seeds of inspiration that you sow?  Please comment on how you look to the positive! #threesistersgarden #melanoma #melanomatheskin #cancer #garden

We Can-cer vive!

Janis

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Author: melanomatheskinwerein

Writer, librarian, humanatarian, and survivalist, melanoma has provided me with the gift of knowing that each day, each moment matters. Family is so important as is the ocean, both course through my veins and are in my heart! Well, that and the immunotherapy drug that's kicking my butt! Let's work through this and infuse hope and education into our lives.

4 thoughts on “Knee High by the Fourth of July”

  1. Hi Janis. I too am one of three sisters the youngest is battling cancer. We talked today about quality of life or quantity. A fact she is now faced with. Her treatment is limited. Carol is giving back to the world of family and friends name signs to mark our place in the world. I think we all battle something and leave a trail. Maybe a plant a flower a food a sign , it’s a good thing. Be strong be brave be whoever you can be. For it will touch others. Love and peace Mary 👍👍

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    1. Thank you, Mary! It’s been good to plan and plant The 3 Sisters portion of my gardens. That quantity versus quality of life is definitely an important conversation. The trial I am on is compromising my quality (which I think is so important) yet like so many, we want to have options for longer life. Tough choices and then throw in a bit of emotion!!!!! Sending love to you, Carol, and all those doing good while fighting battles.

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